how does the obituary writing process work?

First, you’ll email me to tell me when you need the obituary and I’ll respond with my availability. I’ll email you a template that will include your loved one’s basic information/timeline, as well as a list of prompts to guide you in thinking about what you want to include in their obituary. You’ll fill out this form and return it to me, and we will schedule a 45-minute interview (via phone call, Zoom, or FaceTime) during which I will learn as much as possible about your loved one and seek any necessary clarification or details.

Using all this information, I’ll write a one- to two-page narrative obituary and send you a draft. You’ll be able to change anything that doesn’t feel right. The final copy will be returned to you within 24-48 hours and can be forwarded to newspapers, funeral homes, or anywhere else you see fit. This work is not copyrighted and is yours to distribute freely.

HOW LONG WILL THE OBITUARY BE?

Newspapers typically charge a fee for placement based on word count, so you may want to inquire with your preferred publication about the cost. I have found that providing a one- to two-page obituary (approximately 500-1,000 words) is a good baseline, as you can use the information piecemeal, using a shorter version for a newspaper placement and the full version for other funeral purposes, such as posting on the funeral home’s website or on your personal social media.

I can also tailor the obituary to your specific needs, providing both a short synopsis to be submitted to the newspaper and a longer, full-length version to be shared among family and friends.

WHY SHOULD I HIRE A PROFESSIONAL OBITUARY WRITER?

Grief can be tricky. In the wake of a loved one’s passing, there are so many tasks to be accomplished, often on a tight deadline, all while dealing with the many feelings and emotions that accompany a death. Many people find themselves overwhelmed by the pressure of getting their loved one’s obituary “just right.” They may struggle to capture their loved one in a way that feels authentic. It can come as a relief to have a professional writer handle the task.

I am adept at drawing out descriptive details while also seeing the big picture, and crafting all of this into a meaningful narrative. But personal fit is important, too. The Society of Professional Obituary Writers has a member directory that includes many options.

CAN I READ OBITUARIES YOU'VE WRITTEN?

You can get a feel for my writing style from my portfolio.

WHAT IS THE TURNAROUND TIME FOR OBITUARIES?

Generally, my turnaround time is within 2-4 days after completion of our interview. If you need one sooner, I can often accommodate special requests.

how much does an obituary cost?

The cost is $250 per obituary, which includes approximately 30 minutes of administrative tasks, 45 minutes of interviewing, and 2-4 hours of writing/editing.

DO YOU WRITE EULOGIES?

While my focus is obituaries, I do provide eulogies on a case-by-case basis. If you are interested in this service, let me know and we will discuss timing and cost.